A bit of Buddha's wisdom

Ajita asked: "What is it that smothers the world and makes it so hard to see? What is it that pollutes the world and seems to threaten it?"

The Buddha answered: "It is ignorance that smothers, and it is carelessness and greed that make it invisible. The hunger of craving pollutes the world, and the pain of suffering causes the greatest fear."

-Sutta Nipata

On being adult....

Someone once told me that my little home play parties were considered very extreme.

wha, wha, wha!?!

I was flabbergasted by the idea that someone would consider my little soirees 'extreme'. It is seldom that I play. The others play and I never see anything that I would consider outside of too much and that couldn't be done in a more public arena.

Ok, aside from the sometimes total nudity of some players. Fortunately, the people who come here don't ogle naked subbies like they have never seen a body before. I would be mortified if I had a guest make a big deal out of someone's nudity.

A friend of mine told me about an incident (one of many) that happened at a play party in the a city in the northeast corner of Indiana. She was all comfy, the dominant she was in a scene with was doing knife play. He's very focused on what he's doing so that he doesn't nick her. She's just enjoying things. Well, the area is open for other to watch when some loud mouth jackass watching says, "Oh how disgusting!" That totally ruined things for the sub who was made to feel ugly.

I want to know who that moron was so bad I can barely stand it. I'm not into scat, but I want to rip off their head and shit down their neck.....yea..how is that for disgusting? How's about a little scat for that loud mouth moron?

Nothing was done about that incident. That I know of, that is.

There was another little incident that happened, but that's not my story to tell...though I wish I could. Talk about a loud mouth moron.....but hey, if someone wants to feel all big and important....he certainly found himself a nice little pond to do it in. *snort*

So, yeah, I can count on my guests here to be adult. Bless all yer perverted little hearts.

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No one has ever asked me about party rules for play at the house. They are simple enough.

• 1. Use common sense. Easy enough when yer adult.
• 2. Don't make assumptions. Makes an ASS out of U and ME. Clever eh?
• 3. NEVER interrupt a scene. If you think something is unsafe, check with the DM (me)
• 4. Don't touch anyone, their equipment or belongings without permission. Half the time if you want to use something...someone is already handing you some sort of implement.
• 5. No cameras or recording devices allow. UNLESS its been discussed beforehand.
• 6. Be polite to everyone. I know yer mama taught you some sort of manners.
• 7. Play sober OR I will ask you to leave.
• 8. Smoking areas will be designated. Two rooms are not to be smoked in....you know which ones they are.
• 9. We are in a residential area so have some sort of covering should you have to go outside. Can't scare the 'nillas, yanno.
• 10. No penetration. Unless you don't mind us all watching...and we will watch. Gods, we are such pervs....
• 11. RED will be the "default" safe word unless you have discussed it with the one you are scening with. Some people like to use something specific.
• 12. Respect scene area. It's small, or one area is...so please limit screaming. Use your inside screaming voice. Please remember to spray the area with disinfectant when you are finished with the scene area.
• 13. If there is a messy scene, use a drop cloth. No scat or water sports. We have a bathroom for that stuff.
• 14. DM (who will be me and one other person) will have final word on everything, including the right to stop an unsafe scene. Heavy play is permitted provided the DMs is notified.

You don't want to scare the DMs into having a tizzy now do ya?

Simple enuff, yes? Good.