Monday, August 21, 2006

a submissive, a slave.....an attempt to explain a little something

I'm not sure how to actually approach this topic. I know a lot of people in this lifestyle are simply not aware of the difference between someone who is a slave and someone who is a submissive.

The difference is..................choices. Ok, that is one of the differences anyway, but I believe it is actually one of the major differences.

What I see mostly here, is that submissives are submissive when out in public at lifestyle functions, parties, etc. It is a 'role' they perform for others. This is all well and good, it makes everyone happy.

A slave, is a slave. ALL the time. A proper slave, not one that plays a slave for what ever amusement it provided, defers to his/her Owner in all things. ALL the time. S/he is representative of their owner. They are property. Therein lies the difference. Property.

Many do not do not understand this. They think its 'play' or fake, or illegal...etc. Even when they are in the presence of a slave, they still do not understand the fundamental difference. It is hard for them to wrap their minds around that concept, the reality that slavery a being who has given themself to another: mind, body and soul. Even marriage is not so binding as someone who has given theirself in slavery.

An owner may or may not have some sort of devotion to their slave. A slave, gives all their devotion to their owner.

I do not see where others can actually grasp that idea. I already know they cannot give that much of theirselves up to it....and their mistress/master maybe actually unwilling to go that far into the actuality of ownership.

Most will never understand that level of service....or experience it.

'nuff said

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